Ask phone number online dating
I thought it was weird but she was hot so didn't think much of it because all the blood was rushing to the wrong organ.
When she was over her purse started buzzing when we were having sex.
As a dude, my habit has been to supply my phone number before the first meeting, and leave it up to her if she wants to do the same. There are plenty of apps that let you use a fake number to text people. But I'd want a number to at least be able to have contact in case something came up or to coordinate before the date. Anything rather than relying on the Ok Cupid email which my friend is doing.
Because getting two people to arrive at the same coordinates on this planet at the same exact time can be surprisingly difficult without at least one party having a phone number. If someone gave me a fake number and later wanted to update it with their real one, I wouldn't think that was strange. I give my phone number when I feel comfortable wanting to meet them but always before the date.
And because these are better looking guys than the guys who are legitimately interested in her, she continually seeks them out.
After a few months, she comes to the opinion that "all guys on okcupid are flakes, and most of them just want sex." Given her experience, she's not wrong.
We're doing this because we're interested in meeting each other. I have no qualms giving mine out though, not like it matters because if they were creepy enough they'd find that stuff out without me giving it to them.
Let's not waste time wandering around like idiots looking for each other. I always give my phone number after we agree to a date, because I don't have the app and that's how they can reach me if they're going to be late or have to cancel last-minute.
One thing she told me was that she NEVER gives her phone number until after the first meeting in person. I told her I would never meet someone if they didn't get me their number.Lately though I've been more lazy and just communicate with them through OKC or whatever as they respond quick enough.