Dating a fat guy


06-Dec-2019 04:26

Now, I’m going to be blunt: dating can suck when you’re fat.Societal standards of beauty are not only arbitrary but often literally impossible to achieve without Photoshop and make-up and there are assholes out there who feel empowered to mock fat people with impunity.Every once in a while, I like to poll my readers on the Nerd Love Facebook Page and on Twitter to find out what issues they feel are holding them back when it comes to dating.And the most common answer is: “I worry that I’m too fat to date.” I’ll be honest: I’m not surprised. According to the Center for Disease Control, 69% of adults 20 years old and over are overweight and 35% are considered obese.

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BMI is a profoundly inaccurate measure of just about and being skinny doesn’t guarantee good health.

Some people simply have long, skinny frames and will be lean and lanky no matter how much they try to bulk up.

Others are shorter and squatter and will always appear heavier.

Weight in the US is a loaded subject; society often equates being heavy with being lazy and/or weak-willed. The societal disdain for heavyset people is so ingrained that even people who are fat feel ashamed about who they are and that they have to apologize for some personal flaw that leaves them with the mark of Canes when the truth about obesity is as much about external factors as it is about food consumption.

Being fat is treated as a referendum on your worth as a person – people see it as an implication that you’re only fat because you simply don’t want to change badly enough. Over the years, we have been discovering that there are innumerable other factors that affect body fat accumulation and weight gain.Trust me: clothes that fit right may feel odd at first but you’ll quickly start to realize how much you instead of trying to conceal you.



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