End dating over text
If I’m not interested, it’s not a turn-off, but it does become annoying if they continually text you first when you don’t show interest.” No surprises here – Weekday texts are more conversational, and are meant to serve as distractions while at work. Weekend texts tend to get more flirtatious, and the senders are more likely to have a drink in the other hand (you don’t say).Ben, 27, cautions the tipsy texters: “Once you start drinking, you start texting less with your brain and more with your emotions, which can lead to a disaster the drunker that you get.” When asked the difference between a “weekday” text and a “weekend” text, Nate, 30, says that there isn’t one – “unless it is after midnight and the bars are closing.” I feel compelled here to remind everyone of the Jersey Shore wisdom of “Nothing good happens after A. David, 20, dislikes communicating through texts “because of the inability to convey emotions properly through words.” Nate, 30, would also opt out: “I am more of a phone caller, [it] shows more intimacy.” Unfortunately, the fear that the guy’s inbox is full of conversations with other girls may be a valid concern.I think these rules are also reflective of the relationship you have with someone.
But don’t underestimate the guy’s ability to play hard to get: “However, if I know someone is interested in me, and maybe I’m playing hard to get, just saying ‘hey’ after a lull in conversation can let them know that I’m still interested, but still give me the control.” We have a consensus here – everyone answered no.
I have noticed over past 3-4 years even females have been more aggressive in pursuit.” On the other side, Braden, 20, says, “It makes them seem desirable; if lots of people want someone, then that person probably has something good about them.” Ben, 27, sheds more light on the appeal: “[It’s] the old adage of nothing easy is worthwhile.