Extreme dating mature
Later, receiving could bring up feelings of shame for not being independent. A big part of dealing with the fear that a desired person or relationship is "too good to be true" is just recognizing, and naming the anxieties, fears, worries, and doubts. Learn what thoughts and expectations you fill the space of the unknown with.
In either of these scenarios the child could develop the idea that s/he must be independent, not need or be obligated to anyone.The above practice of not-knowing is different from confusion and debilitating doubt.